I know it seems like we document a lot of our lives on this blog and on Jim's blog and it's true, but there is so much more to us that what is bloggable. We pick and choose the moments to share and many times they are the nice, cute, perfect family moments. I try to occasionally show the funny and frustrating moments, the tough and the scary moments but that does not happen as often. I feel I need to share this because I think some people (no one in particular) and even our daughter (if she ever reads this) will get the impression that our lives are exactly what is on the blog. We are more than the sum of our blogs, much much more. The experiences that we don't capture with a camera or a blog are just as important and shape us just as much as what we choose to share. There are things happening in our lives, that I don't know if I will ever be able to blog about. I hope that someday I will but every time I sit down to write about them I feel stuck. I realize that