Wednesday, December 30, 2009

The Numbers

It is referral time again for China. It has only been a few weeks since the last batch which is tending to be a trend for December 2 referral batches. Although it does not make up for all the small batches this year or the fact that they have only sent out referrals 10 times in the last 12 months. Every year when we think it could not possibly get slower it does.

So here are the facts: We have 387 days between our LID and the LID that just got referrals. China has averaged 3.4 LIDs per month in 2009, the total average per month since we have been waiting is 5.0 LIDs.

What does that mean for our China referral, I have no idea. I could be several years before we get a referral or it could happen more quickly. We really have no idea. We are going to stick with the non-special-needs (NSN) program until we get home from Burundi and have adjusted to life with a toddler, then we will re-evaluate the situation and see where we are in the process. Until then we are holding steady in the NSN line and waiting.

As for Burundi, no news is no news still. We are waiting for something but I am not sure what. We have asked repeatedly for updated pictures but nothing for the last 2 months. We are currently at day number 275 since our referral. I really hope that we don't start marking this wait in years as well. It is disheartening to put it mildly. Some days I just through my hands in the air and say I give up and other days I am fighting mad at the fact that this process is so slow. I am boycotting our agency until the new year but they can expect my call on the 4th trying to find out what the heck is going on. We need to get our paperwork updated and I am really not looking forward to spending about $1000 more dollars to the US government with no expectations of using it. So it will be interesting to find out if anything happens in the next few weeks.

4 comments:

sweet momma luv u said...

Oh boy!! What a year this has been for you. Nothing I can say will help you with everything. I just think it is crazy how slow it is moving in Burundi. I know our paperwork expires on March 20,2010. So, we have to be home with Jon Jon by then.

Tomorrow we go to Seattle USCIS office for fingerprinting. Yippee!!
Only the 3rd time... it is the last though.


I have heard lots of rumors about China lately because of the recent abuse and deaths of some adopted children from there. not good....
I pray that everything will speed up for you guys.

Hugs,
jody

Isabella's Mommy and Daddy said...

I am waiting along with you girly..
I soo hope Aiden is home soon. and as for LM well ... our girls hopefully will be home by next Christmas.. or at least have photos..
Love ya.
I don't want to spend another 1000 either.. but looks like we will have too..
love ya...

 

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